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YOU HAVE MASTERED YOUR SELFIE... NOW, MASTER YOUR 'SELF'

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Congratulations! We've succeeded mastering a lot of things in life; Some of which are of great importance, while others are of less value. But come, have we been taking out time to master perhaps the most significant figure in the entire universe, 'self'? Of course, we can't master 'self' in one day but we're sure can commit to self mastery on a daily basis. Here are some steps to 'Self' mastery we can begin to comit to Master your Thoughts Master your Speech Master your Temperament Master your Attitude Master your Patience Master your Courage Master your Appetite Master your Self! ©IBreakBarriersAfrica

SPECULATION IS ALL THEY'VE GOT ON YOU

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So what! If they trash talk you, is that supposed to define you? So you will put your life on hold, regret your actions, change your decisions, sink into depression and unhappiness because of some half baked story??? I have often wondered why humans (youth in particular) think they need other peoples' approval; no matter how hard they try, people will only know you as much as you want them to, So why bother what they say about you or think of you? People will always talk about your life, your beliefs, your family, your job, your choices, your failures and of course your victory..... that is their job!!! You give them an advantage over you if you allow them run your life with their opinions. Someone will ask me if that's THEIR JOB what is mine? There was a time in my life when I thought pleasing people, having them say only good things about me is all that matters to live right. Guess what..I realised I was trying so hard, putting in too much effort to live; I was unh

CAN'T SAY SORRY FOR DOING ME

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I am a dark skinned lady, a beautiful one at that and I am proud of my skin color... Imagine my shock when I met someone who thought my being dark skinned makes people uncomfortable and I should be apologetic about that instead of proud. You know at first I was on the verge of saying am sorry if my skin color makes you uncomfortable but I had to stop myself and instead said "I a m am who I am, can't be sorry for being dark skinned and I can't apologise for being me or for doing me....If you're uncomfortable, then you're your own problem...I am not your problem" We shouldnt apologize for being who we are, not for the way we walk, talk or look like. If I am not okay with something about myself then I can decide to change but nobody will shut down my self-esteem, make me unsure of myself or  think less of myself because he or she's got issues I know often times we overlook these things but if you have ever found yourself in a situation like I found myse

African Bella

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LYRICS Intro: No no no no no one Biyi Dayniel Say so Chorus: The thing that makes me dey love her No one can take ooo, Away away Gbape no one can take ooo Forward backward never I no dey shake ooo, No way no way Kampe, i dey awake ooo My only African bella got me hypnotize You know i love you wella, you realize Only you fit wear my fila, e be your size Na na na girl, you are the apple of my eyes Verse 1: Every blessed day she gives me butterflies So colourful, so beautiful Ever since she came my way have got the strength to fly You are so magical, my sweet sweet Monica Hook: Baby ooo awelewa, i call you Adesewa Ololufemi, Oya famomi Fenuko mi, ki n fowo kan e oooo Oya roll am circular This your body is spectacular With you me, with me you baby ooo Life is beautiful. Chorus: The thing that makes me dey love her No one can take ooo, Away away Gbape no one can take ooo Forward backward never I no dey shake ooo, No way no way Kampe, i dey awake ooo My only African bella got me hypnotize Y

Hope And Smiles to Widows

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"Understanding, Compassion, Kindness and Love are the only True life ideas.  When we compromise on these, we become what we despise and lose our humanity." A bit unlike recent years that I visited prisons and orphanage homes, this year in celebrating my birthday, we shall be visiting a rural settlement in Kwara state, Nigeria where I and my team; Two nurses and three other volunteers shall be giving food, clothing and a mild medical aid to about forty widows and widowers in this settlement. No! We CAN'T help ALL of them, BUT we CAN help SOME of them. And BECAUSE we CAN, we SHOULD! Please pray along with us

MR. PRESIDENT, WE ARE WORRIED

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As Nigerians grapple with the dire situation in the country, President Buhari’s ailing health is a great concern to some of us who believe in our President’s efforts to rescue Nigeria from the claws of corruption. The presidency continue to play slyly into the hands of Buhari’s foes and adversaries. This is the age of information dissemination. It is practically impossible to hide under one canopy in a country that is shrinking into a global village. In this period of reminiscence of the late Yar’Adua’s twilight life, the patriots in Nigeria are very concerned. Nigerians have the right to ask for their president when they suspect something is going wrong. The poor tasks of Buhari’s handlers are a vindication to his foes and death- wishers! The haters of Buhari seem to be winning over some of us (Buharists) who believe in his incorruptible persona, and his unblemished vision for Nigeria. We are again returning to the dark days of confusion. The presidency has been very conflicted abou

BEFORE YOU OVERTHINK, PRAY

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Most times we think we can handle it, and we sometimes believe the more we think(worry) the higher our chances of getting it fixed. Unfortunately, we are wrong! We unconsciously conclude that prayer is overrated. No, no it can't be, no! Fervent prayers 'garnished' in faith still do wonders. And the good news is, no matter how skyrocketed the prices of things get lately, the price of prayer is never affected by recession or inflation. Just be bold to approach the throne of grace and you'll see Every Damaged things RESTORED! #ItPaysToPray# #JearyJoe|IBBA#